Deciding where to get married can be a difficult question to answer, and the start of your planning has no doubt hit this snag. Give yourselves some time and, above all, listen to your partner and your loved ones.
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Here are 5 tips to help you and your partner choose where to hold your wedding:
In Italy or abroad?
The first thing to consider is whether you want a wedding in Italy or a destination wedding abroad. If you've always dreamed of marrying on a Caribbean beach among the palm trees, it's probably best to look abroad, although Italy has many interesting beaches too. Certainly, couples who choose a church wedding will generally be more inclined to marry in Italy. Consider whether your guests will be able to travel: older guests, for example, are unlikely to join you in the Maldives.
If in Italy, close to home or far away?
If you've decided that Italy is where you'll marry, you need to consider whether to get married close to home or further afield. Many couples may choose a place that means something to them, a place they have a bond with. Other couples might think of a place with a church they're devoted to. Whatever place you choose, factor in the travel for yourselves and your guests.
What is the ideal wedding venue?
However difficult choosing a wedding venue may seem, many couples know exactly where they want to marry. If that isn't the case, simply weigh up each partner's needs and those of your guests. Choosing a place you both love will certainly rule out places that don't suit the couple's tastes.
The style of your dream wedding
Do you want an informal or a formal wedding? It helps to know the size of your wedding and whether you'll be wearing a tie or having an informal wedding in a forest with a few close friends. These are some of the clues that help you work out which venue best suits your choices. Casual or formal? Well, that will reflect the couple's spirit and, in turn, the choice of venue.
DIY or all-inclusive?
Some venues offer only the space itself, without any services included. There are breathtaking villas, for example, that don't provide catering. Others take care of everything, from the flowers to the menu and the musical entertainment. It's important to work out how much time you have and, above all, whom to turn to: there are many wedding planners who organise everything, though that doesn't stop anyone who wants to from doing it themselves.
Frequently asked questions
How do you choose a wedding venue?
Start with the number of guests, the season and the style you want; then check indoor spaces, the distance from the church and the light for photos.
Is it better to marry close to home or have a destination wedding?
Close to home is easier for your guests; a destination wedding gives you a special place but takes more planning for those travelling.
What wedding venues are there in Irpinia?
Villas, country estates and reception halls around Avellino, Ariano Irpino, Grottaminarda and Mirabella Eclano: you'll find several on our page dedicated to weddings in Irpinia.
